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“When I was young I always felt different.

I was a quiet child. I got involved in a few things but never felt I really ‘fitted’. We moved around a few times, largely due to my Dad, and housing was an issue a couple of times. We spent a couple of months in emergency housing in a hotel, and then we were housed in a terrace: a two up two down for a family of four.

Four soon became three when Dad left, then we were rehoused in a decent house. My Mum still lives there 45+ years later!

I realised through this experience that my four walls were me. My difference was being trans, so the walls were my own body. However I tried to mould myself and conform to expectations, that wasn’t going away.

I was 33 when I “came out”, and that helped.

12 years later, in 2010, I realised the person I saw in the mirror wasn’t me anymore. The woman inside was looking out of the windows of a prison, through the eyes of a body that was wrong. I had to change.

I started that journey in 2011, and physically achieved balance in 2013. Fast forward to 2025 and I’m now happily married. The four walls around me are now spiritually, emotionally and physically home, and you have helped through that journey.

To me, “Stargazing” is a way of imagining what might be. I spent so long dreaming of how things might be in the future. I reached for those stars and arrived in a world that, while not perfect, is far far better than I hoped for in the past. Your music has followed me on the journey for some of the way, since I first heard “Paper Thin” in 2016.

The progress pride flag represents my story and all the people who are trapped either in their own internal four walls, their own space or the so called “closet”, unable or not allowed to be their true selves.

The four walls that people have to build around themselves can be really oppressive and lead to far more LGBT+ people having mental health issues. My own were really quite dark until the start of my journey out towards a lighter place.

Some don’t make the journey.”

Julia Georgiou


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Imogen’s Paper Flower

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“My object is a paper flower my daughter made me in Year 3 at school.

I attached the flower to the rear view mirror in my car, partly so I had a safe place for it and partly so I could look at it and think of her. It always makes me smile.

Over time it has taken on more meaning.

A few years ago, pre-Covid, I was under a lot of stress at work, and I broke.

I spent a lot of time at my desk planning routes to the upper floors. I observed how easy it would be to get up there without anyone seeing me. I never planned the route back down.

I wasn’t in a great place. My family were supportive, but the one thing that grounded me through that period was this paper flower hanging from my rear view mirror. It was a constant reminder of my daughter’s love for me, and my love for her and my family. That’s what stopped me from leaving them behind.

Thanks to the paper flower, I started taking antidepressants, changed jobs and found a better balance in my life.

It might seem odd that something so simple could be so important to me, but every day it reminds me of what I still have. It reminds me to be grateful for so much.”

JR


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Gil’s Racing Helmet

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“When he was born, Gillen spent a month in Great Ormond Street with a heart condition called TGA (transposition of the great arteries). Essentially your two main arteries are the wrong way round, meaning that the oxygenated blood is not circulated to your body. Only a couple of additional holes in his heart kept him alive.

When he was nine days old I carried him down to theatre for open heart surgery. Handing him over to the surgeons was the most awful thing I’ve ever done.

We were told Gil may not survive, and we didn’t know if he would have any limitations in the future, so each day is a blessing.

Despite that scary start to life, he has gone on to be the most amazing person. Aside from his collection of scars and a tendency to go a bit blue in the cold, you’d never know what he went through. We’ve always treated him as we would any child, but it’s always in the back of our minds that nothing can be taken for granted.

Gil has always been massively into cars and always wanted to race. He’s now nine, and regularly wins local races. When he entered a National Championship recently we warned him it would be a lot harder, and he was not to worry if he finished last.

He came third.

It’s incredible, if terrifying, to watch Gil race – and he certainly doesn’t get his driving ability from me! We’re so proud of him.

I can’t begin to tell you how much we love him. One of my favourite quotes is from John Candy in “Planes,Trains and Automobiles”:

“Love is not a big enough word.”

Gil helped design his own racing helmet with a heart as part of his logo, so I thought it would be great to get it in the House Of Stories.”

Martin Townshend


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Andre’s Trombone

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“When I was in my early teens I was part of a Mediaeval Re-enactment Society in my hometown of Sheffield.

Formed in 1973 by my parents and three or four other families all connected with the Police force, they named it Escafeld, the old name for Sheffield, and the group is still going strong today. In the early days they were trying to grow it, so I asked my best friend from school if he would join. We were both 13.

At the time my friend’s hobby was playing in the local brass band, which had reformed in the late 1960s and were also looking for new players. We struck a bargain: he joined Escafeld and I joined the brass band. I started out on Tenor Horn, but ended up on trombone after a suggestion by the conductor.

When we were around 20 years old, my friend and I both quit Escafeld. I moved away for work, and my friend had become a knight and was fed up of getting hit on the head with swords. We both carried on playing in (different) brass bands, and I kept going despite moving around for work until I was 32. At that point we had our two daughters and moved to Leeds, where I still live, and I stopped playing. Largely because of the children, but also because I fell out of the habit.

My best friend who started me off happened to live close by us in Leeds, and he and his wife played in a local band. We also had children who were almost the same age. When their daughter decided to learn to play, and joined the youth band connected to her parents band, my youngest daughter decided to learn as well. They were both around 13 at the time. I decided to help out by playing with the youth band, and dusted off the trombone after 14 years of inactivity.

My friend’s daughter gave up after about a year, but by then my daughter was committed to carry on because she had chosen to do music for her GCSE’s, and had moved to a bigger youth band a few miles away. I followed her, playing in the same youth band and helping them, eventually joining the senior band 20 years ago. I am still playing and enjoying it to this day.

My favourite times are taking part in the national contests. Briefly, banding is divided into five sections by ability and there are annual contests between bands in the same section and geographical area. The winners get to play against the same level bands from each of the nine areas around the UK. There is also promotion/relegation between sections in each area, so it’s similar to football but at a local level.

Over the 59 years since I started playing, bands I have been part of have managed to win through to the finals seven times.

On a less positive note, my most memorable moment was accidentally re-enacting a famous scene from the film “Brassed Off”. If you haven’t seen it I recommend you watch it.

“Brassed Off” is a powerful history of life in the ‘80s for people in the mining industry, following a brass band and its struggles to survive when the local pit closes down. In one scene the band is on a march, and the main trombonist drops his slide while playing. He is seen scrambling around trying to pick it up as the band plays and marches on.

I did the same on a march once, and it was highly embarrassing.”

Andre Hill


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The Red Bass of Destiny

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“It was 1989 and I was in San Diego, CA playing in a band on weekends and working as an electrician during the week.

I worked with a guy named Matt, and we had started the band after a few weeks of shop talk about music. At the time we were both into the same stuff: what in retrospect we’d call pre-or early grunge. Pixies, Tad, Soundgarden, Black Flag, and pretty much anything on the Sub Pop label or Taang Records.

We’d heard Nirvana’s first single “Love Buzz” the year before, and were excited to get their first full album “Bleach”. Our favourite moment on that record was the bass intro to the first song, “Blew”. It was the coolest intro we’d ever heard – we wanted to marry that intro. Matt and I told our bassist Mitch that he MUST learn the bass part, and we were goddam SURE going to play that song at our next gig. We told him we’d even buy him a bass (he’d been playing his Dad’s old 1970’s Danelectro which wouldn’t stay in tune).

New instruments were out of our price range, like most things during our 20’s, so off to the pawn shop we went. Mitch had been talking about the different kinds of feedback he could get with an open-bodied bass, so I was immediately intrigued by a violin-like hollowbody down at the end of the wall, weirdly priced at $247.50.

This one looked like McCartney’s Hofner made by someone on acid. It was a deep Chinese red and shiny as hell. No fret buzz, smooth and warm. Silky. The neck was straight but there was a 1/4″ ding on the upper back, at the 14th fret. It wasn’t enough to make the finish fall off, but it was cracked and could be felt. I laughed and said “It’s a bass – you shouldn’t be playing this high anyway”. That turned into a long-standing joke.

Mitch loved it, and we were sounding good for the next two weeks. “Blew” was a killer played live to our alt-indie music community. That’s when Matt and I got fired for drinking beers during lunch.

I called Mitch, whose Mom told me he couldn’t play with us anymore because he had been arrested for assault and robbery the night before. She very decently returned the bass, and I started looking for work. It took me about a month to find a new job, and I had to pawn a few things to pay the rent.

From the pawnshop, I got a loan on the bass and a few other items. In this way I stayed off the street until I went back to work. My employment history from this period of my life reads like a who’s who of electrical companies in the San Diego area.

I was working but not thriving because of too much partying. This pattern continued for the next year or so, and I was a regular at the old pawnshop. Put something in for being short on cash, pay it back plus 10% a week later – that is, if I could afford to get it out of hock. One of those times, I couldn’t. I got a $70 loan on the bass and couldn’t afford to get it out before the loan expired.

Driving by the pawnshop I could see it up on the wall in the same place it was 6 months before, weirdly priced again at $247.50. It wasn’t flirting around anymore. Now it was a stern rebuke; I was ashamed.

These kinds of feelings grew over the next months, and I finally took action. I had dropped out of college a few years before to play music, now I lied about my qualifications and got a job as an electrical engineer for a large government contractor called Raytheon Corp. The thing was, the job was out in the middle of the Pacific Ocean at a military base where they had a plant that destroyed chemical weapons. No more staying out too late, no more drugs of any kind. Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) discipline.

It was just what I needed – I was out of control and getting worse.

To make a long story a bit longer, it worked. By the time I finished with my overseas journeys in 1998 I had an actual career as an Electrical Engineer. I’d finished my degree while out in the islands, and now that I had some self-respect, I was respectable.

Around 1992 I had taken up computers and the internet as a hobby, and I entered that industry when I got back to the States. Around this time my creative side, which had been sleeping off the late 80’s, started to reawaken.

By 2001 I was working in Silicon Valley, the embodiment of the dot.com world. At a little music store the size of a grade-school library, I saw a guitar on half-price sale: a 12-string Samick Nightingale. I bought it immediately, and I still own and love it. All of a sudden I was back in the business: my first love (music) was still my deepest. I started lurking on eBay, window-shopping all the cool gear.

One spring day in 2003 I was scrolling though bass guitars. I didn’t have one at the time, and I was helping with a record my friend’s band was making. My job was to listen to the demo and play bass to it, then send back the mixed version. Out of the blue I remembered the red bass that had looked so abandoned the last time I’d seen it. The pawn shop was gone; the land sold for a condo project. Then I remembered the brand name: Kent.

The first 20 or so results of my “Kent” + “bass” search were all unremarkable solidbody Precision bass knockoffs. Then there it was: one that looked just like mine except for the tobacco-burst finish, which I thought was ugly as sin. Another scroll, and I saw it. Chinese red. The pictures weren’t all that detailed, but I figured what the hell. $300 was a decent price in Wisconsin and wouldn’t break the bank.

The bass arrived a week later in the usual Big Box Of Guitar. I was a bit disappointed at first: it smelled like cigarettes which made me fearful of its condition, but I tuned it and played a bit and it seemed to be just fine otherwise. New strings, and it was even better. The neck was dead straight; I always worry about hollow instruments. Setting the action brought it back to life.

I wanted it to smell like carnauba wax instead of cigarettes, so I began a methodical cleaning. Remove all electrics, clean/check connections. Chrome polish bridge cover. Lemon oil fretboard. On this bass I used Cobalt core strings; I like the combination of flatwound warmth and cobalt kick, Orange Crush 25 freq set to keep some higher tones in. Now for the wax: Mother’s California Gold carnauba wax.

It was obvious this piece hadn’t had a good cleaning for years. So before the wax, I did a gentle once-over with Meguiar’s polishing compound. The body looked alright; some moderate checking of the 40-year old paint. Headstock was ok, remove strings to clean machine heads. Sprinkle graphite, wipe off graphite. The neck…

The neck. A ding on the upper side of the back. About 1/4″. As I started counting frets I felt a tingling sensation work its way down my spine. The ding wasn’t enough to make the finish fall off, but it was cracked and could be felt.

I couldn’t avoid the thought: “It came back to me.”

I felt myself tear up a little, and I stupidly wondered what paths the bass had been down, to end up halfway across the country in Wisconsin, while I was trying to become an adult halfway around the world in Oceania.

It didn’t matter, I decided. I shouldn’t have been playing that high anyway.”

Stephen Falken


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Rocky the Tibetan Terrier

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“Rocky is 13 now.

I was very down around the time we got him as a puppy, and he gave me something to focus on.

He’s a real character and very stubborn!

About 18 months ago he was badly attacked by an XL Bully and a Rottweiler who had escaped a nearby house. It took about 20 minutes before my Dad and I could get him away from the other dogs, and by some miracle he survived 7 hours of surgery.

Tibetan Terriers are interesting dogs, originally raised by Tibetan monks and kept as good luck charms, mascots, watchdogs and herding dogs. Local villagers refer to Tibetan Terriers as “the little people”, and many believe their spirits are the reincarnation of departed monks.

Rocky is a typical Tibetan. Descended from the great “Fabulous Willy”, a famous Tibetan who was Best In Show at Crufts in 2007, he’s very stubborn, does what he wants and rules the roost. They always pick one person in the family who they follow and idolise – my Dad, not me!

His attack in 2023 was a very bad time for him and our family, but we’re so glad he made it against all the odds. He’s had a good life so far besides, and turns 14 in July 2025.”

Gav, Lou, Sue, Gary & Nikki – Rocky’s pack!


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Tsoureki

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“I was trying to think of an object to commemorate my late father.

I remember him telling me about his childhood in Nazi-occupied Greece, and how Larissa, the small town he was evacuated to, was liberated at Easter 1945.

He said his first sign that the Allied forces were approaching was when he heard Greek soldiers singing the traditional Easter carol, Christos Anesti, with great gusto. So I thought of the Greek Easter bread, the tsoureki, though I suspect flour and eggs would have been in short supply, let alone cochineal for dyeing the red egg.”

Nick Xylas


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